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Sibling Love & Loss: Navigating Grief After the Death of a Brother or Sister

August 27th, 2024

Chances are, you’ve never known life without your brother or sister. You shared a childhood, you shared a family, you shared a home. And now you’ve lost one of the few people in the world who truly understands your past. You may have also lost your present-day best friend and confidant, or the one person who was meant to help you navigate the ups and downs of aging parents in the future.  


Despite the significance of this loss, the death of a sibling is often one of the most neglected types of grief. Support usually focuses on the surviving spouse, parents and children of a lost loved one. Siblings rarely have input into memorial services and other arrangements and are often not included in “immediate family” tributes or gestures of support like meal trains or sympathy flowers.


If you find yourself grappling with the loss of a brother or sister, here is some insight to help you navigate this intricate journey of grief.


A Shared History, a Shared Loss


The loss of a sibling who shared your childhood creates a unique void. The memories and common experiences become a tapestry of your identity, for better or for worse. When you lose a brother or sister, you lose a connection to your past. Whether you were close siblings or had a more distant relationship, the bond between you can never be denied. Allow yourself the space to grieve not only the person you lost but also the shared history that has shaped who you are.


Embracing Identity Shifts


The loss of a sibling can lead to shifts in identity and roles within the family structure. You may suddenly be the oldest child, for example, or the new “baby” of the family, which brings a change in roles and responsibilities. And you may also have to navigate a change in your relationship with your parents. As they mourn the loss of their child and work through their own grief, it’s normal to experience feelings of abandonment. Allow yourself the grace to navigate these changes at your own pace. Embracing a new identity while honoring your sibling's memory is a gradual and evolving process.


Navigating the Role of Caretaker


For many, losing a sibling also means grappling with the shifting dynamics of family responsibilities. If your sibling was a caretaker for aging parents, the loss can bring additional challenges. Acknowledge the impact on family dynamics and allow time for adjusting to the new reality. If you were already involved in caring for aging parents alongside your sibling, seek support for this transition. Grieving while managing caregiving responsibilities can be overwhelming. Connect with support groups or professionals who can offer guidance on navigating both aspects of loss.


Embrace the Complexity of Grief


Grief is multifaceted, and losing a brother or sister involves a spectrum of emotions. Many families have complicated relationships filled with ups and downs. While siblings may have profound love for one another, it’s also normal for this relationship to be filled with competition, jealousy, overstepped boundaries and quarrels. You may even experience “survivor’s guilt” after losing a brother or sister who is close in age to you, and suddenly feel especially vulnerable in this life. Recognize the layers of grief, knowing that a mix of emotions like sadness, anger and guilt is a valid part of your journey.


Cherish the Shared Moments


Celebrate the shared moments that defined your relationship with your sibling. Whether it's revisiting childhood photos or recalling adventures together, cherishing these memories can serve as a source of comfort and a way to honor their lasting impact on your life. Turn favorite photos into a keepsake like a custom blanket, create a garden stone for your garden in their memory or make a personalized candle that lights up in their honor.


Allow Room for Personal Grief


While life doesn’t stop after loss, remember to carve out time for personal grief. Whether it's through journaling, seeking therapy or engaging in activities that bring solace, prioritize your emotional well-being during this challenging time. Build a supportive network of friends, family and peers who understand the complexities of losing a sibling. Surround yourself with individuals who can provide empathy, encouragement and a listening ear as you navigate the intricacies of grief and family dynamics.


Losing a sibling who shared your childhood and family life is a profound journey filled with complexities. By cherishing shared memories, seeking support and allowing space for personal grief, you can navigate this intricate path with resilience. Remember that your sibling's legacy lives on in the shared history you carry, you honor their memory by embracing the love that endures beyond death.


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